Sudah lama di Draft
Tajuk menunjukkan betapa aku sedang mencuri tulang. Oh Encik Blog si "punchbag" ku, ku perlu kau tahu, yag sy masih sayang Encik Blog. Jadi aku datang singgah sebab nak vacuum sawang yang meliputi Encik Blog.
Truth is, i'm about to word vomit.
A friend told me that she's always in a view that a marriage has a totally different dynamic than dating. Currently she is living with her boyfriend and complaining bout petty stuffs her boyfriend did while they were living together. I once told her, that it sounds like a marriage already, why don't you just get it sign and seal instead. That's when she told me about the whole different dynamic theory.
Today, I feel like she has a point there. Being a Muslim makes the point even lucid, since Islam invite women to be respectful to their husband. Hormat di sini sangat subjektif, patuh itu satu cerita yang lain, tak perlu aku huraikan. Pokoknya, masa kita berpacaran, apa keputusan yang aku buat tidak memberi kesan pada timbang tara pahala dosa orang lain, tapi kini lain.
Mula terasa perubahan dinamik itu, walaupun kami masih berhappy2 macam pasangan hippy. Mungkin belum punya baby. Ada baby lagi la lain dinamik dan dedikasi dan cekal dan fitrah dan macam-macam lagilah. *nama kelas kat sekolah menengah*
Cuba ingat balik, masa aku sain hari tu ada tak fikir pasal benda ni.
HAHAHAHA
InsyaAllah, Allah mesti tolong.
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